Narcissism in Relationships: The Games They Play & How It Affects Their Partners
Narcissism is a personality disorder that is characterized by grandiose behavior, a need for admiration, and a lack of empathy. Narcissists are often very charming and persuasive, which can make them seem like the perfect partner. However, these same traits can also be warning signs of narcissistic abuse. If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, you may find yourself feeling used, manipulated, and even abused. But it’s important to remember that you’re not alone. In this blog post, we’ll explore the games narcissists play in relationships and the effects that their abuse can have on their partners. We’ll also provide some tips on how victims of narcissistic abuse can become empowered again.
The games narcissists play in relationships are often designed to exploit their partners’ vulnerabilities. One common game is called “Love Bombing.” This is when the narcissist showers their partner with excessive amounts of attention and affection in order to gain their trust. Once they have gained their trust, they will begin to withdraw their attention and affection in order to create feelings of insecurity and dependency. This game is often used to gaslight their partners into doubting their own perceptions and reality.
Another common game narcissists play is called “Hoovering.” This is when the narcissist tries to suck their partner back into the relationship after they have left or been discarded. The narcissist may use any number of tactics to hoover their partner back into the relationship, including but not limited to: flattery, promises of change, gifts, or even threats.
The games that narcissists play can have a devastating effect on their partners. Victims of narcissistic abuse often suffer from anxiety, depression, PTSD, and even physical symptoms such as headaches and stomachaches. It’s important for victims of narcissistic abuse to seek professional help so that they can begin to heal the trauma that has been inflicted upon them. Remember, you are not alone—there is help available.
If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, you may be feeling used, manipulated, and even abused. But it’s important to remember that you’re not alone—narcissistic abuse is a very real thing and there is help available. If you think you might be a victim of narcissistic abuse, please reach out for help from a qualified mental health professional. You deserve to be safe and happy in your relationships.
Kristin Fuller, MSW, LCSW
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Kristin Fuller, LCSW is a Clinical Therapist and Coach with over 19 years of experience. She is a graduate of the University of Georgia where she resides with her 2 children in the Atlanta, GA area. Kristin has helped people from all walks of life overcome their personal challenges and escape narcissistic relationships.